Wednesday, December 18, 2024

Stasis Rather Than Climbing

 

The reflection looking back at him was not an appealing sight, a roll of fat hung over his belt, his three chins mocked him for even considering taking action toward their removal, and his moobs no longer resembled anything even slightly masculine. Liam had rehearsed this conversation in his head nearly every day for the last three months, determined to make changes in his life, to bring back the fit and toned body that he had enjoyed in his college days.

He slipped on his t-shirt in an attempt to hide the morbid flabbiness that he now called his reality, but his stomach roll remained visible just below the bottom edge of his shirt. Feeling somewhat covered and slightly appeased at the minor improvement in his appearance, he walked out onto his deck to look at the multiple, jagged mountain peaks that lay just behind his apartment building. His workday hadn’t started yet, with forty-five minutes before he needed to leave for his office job downtown.

He sat down alone at his kitchen counter and ate six maple bars with a large mug of coffee, to then waddle to the bathroom, brush his teeth, and begin his drive in to work, enjoying the silence of the drive before being immersed in the busyness of his shared office space. He sat down behind his computer monitor to remove a sticky note pasted to the center of the screen, an invitation to join his two friends Matteo and Gabriel to watch a series of short films about rock climbing that evening. Letting out a long breath, he leaned back in his chair, knowing full well that he had no other plans and rejecting the offer would only result in insistence from his friends.

The day crawled by as he spent the majority of his time coding and sitting through two short meetings, wondering why he had been invited to either of them. At his two o’clock break, he sent an email to Matteo, confirming his intent to join them that evening but only after getting dinner first.

Filled up to the top of his neck, or that is what it felt like, Liam sat with his two friends in a small, locally owned movie theater to spend the next three hours watching short, independently produced films about rock climbing, a subject in which he had no interest but figured he could at least spend this time with his friends rather than sitting at home alone with his overweight and typically sleeping dog, Arturo.

The series of shorts finally ended, and Liam climbed out of Matteo’s car to trudge up his short sidewalk to climb three flights of stairs, as the lift was currently out of order. Still painfully full from his massive dinner, the exercise of walking so many flights of stairs left him with the urge to vomit, sweaty and pasty as he finally reached his door. The sound of snoring from Arturo was the only thing that greeted him as he crossed his threshold. The combination of wanting to shower but also of wanting to sleep, left him in a conundrum, so he collapsed on his bed still in his clothes and promptly fell asleep.

                  He woke the next morning to the screeching of his alarm clock to a room full of the combined smell of BO and feet, forcing him to open his bedroom window, trusting that the sharp smell would soon dissipate. The morning progressed like it always did on a typical workday and he dropped himself behind his computer monitor to once again see a sticky note pasted to the center, informing him that Matteo and Gabriel had signed the three of them up for a rock-climbing excursion the following weekend.

                  The three friends spent that evening at the local sporting goods store, spending far too money on equipment that Liam knew he would most likely never use. He pulled himself from bed the following Saturday morning to find Matteo and Gabriel parked in front of his apartment. He dropped his equipment in the trunk, dropped himself into the backseat and tried to picture how the next several hours would progress, knowing full well that he would be hard pressed to heave his corpulent frame up a rock face.

                  Matteo parked the car, and they walked to the agreed upon point of ascension, to meet a young woman, stunningly beautiful and remarkably fit. They all introduced themselves and listened to a brief explanation of the steps they would need to perform to begin their progress up the mountain side. Liam offered to begin his ascent last and as he watched his friends perform their steps exactly as they had been instructed, he, instead, began to wander around the base of the mountain, chatting with other climbers and pretending to be a climber himself.

                  He knew the lingo, the equipment, and had the cheery, chatty demeanor to pass himself off as one who knew things and was more than happy to offer advice and instruction to anyone willing to listen, but his swollen, flabby frame exposed the lie, which many recognized as a blatant and willful attempt at deception. Every other weekend was the same, as he watched his friends ascend to greater and greater heights, while he wandered around, telling the same stories, giving the same advice, and receiving the same curious looks and responses from other climbers.

                  Despite his deep seeded desire to join his friends, he simply did not have the willpower or the energy to do so. His life of deception continued to eat at him, slowly withering his soul with a disappointment that he could not put into words. While he knew that everything he was saying and teaching was true, he also knew that his actions were a lie. He had no way to answer those who silently judged him for his hypocrisy, hoping that someday he would find a way to take that first step and become the climber he claimed to be.

                  As the months continued to pass by, he became more and more depressed with his ongoing deception and failure as a human being. He had been lying to his friends for the full duration of their time “rock climbing”, until one day at work he finally admitted to the failure and liar he had become, to receive encouraging words from Matteo to seek advice and help from the climbing instructor. He swallowed his pride and the following weekend, he made the effort to begin a conversation with her, explaining the horrible place now found himself.

                  She offered some direct and easy advice, suggesting that he start very small, climbing mountainsides that required no gear or extreme exertion. She directed him to three different locations to consider, and he followed her advice, eventually giving up his days of wandering and teaching around the base of the mountain. He spent the next three months following her direction, to begin to see his weight drop, his motivation build, and his endurance increase. After six more months, he began to actually climb, starting back to where he, Matteo and Gabriel had started so long ago, finding a sliver of joy and satisfaction at finally making some progress.

                  Committed to his newfound success, he vowed to wander and teach no longer, focusing on his own improvement and progress. A full year passed, and he stood in front of his bathroom mirror, marveling at the much smaller frame that now faced him, motivating him to continue, to press himself harder, and to be the climber that he had formerly claimed to be.

                  Over time, he found himself drawing the attention of women at the office, at the pub in the evenings with Matteo and Gabriel, and at the mountainside, a glorious combination of success and attention that built his confidence and hope that something good would come from his new social interaction, trusting that one day he would no longer be alone in his small apartment with his overweight dog, eating mac and cheese, tv dinners, and tubs of ice cream.

                  Looking at Arturo that evening, he vowed to himself and to Arturo that the two of them would begin taking walks every other evening. He watched his own endurance continue to improve and Arturo began to slim down as well, snoring less and becoming more active around the apartment, chasing the tennis ball that Liam would toss on occasion.

He and Arturo looked back on their lives prior to his decision to begin being what he claimed to be and became more and more driven to continue on this path toward overall excellence and honesty.


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